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Bad sex April 20, 2011

Posted by Leah in Craigslust, Cunnilingus, D/s, Fucking, Masturbation.

It began with slobbering kisses, thirty seconds of foreplay while we undressed, thirty seconds of cunnilingus, and uninspired bedroom conversation that featured particularly inept dirty talk.

He reached between my legs and fingered my pussy while twisting a clothespin on my nipple.

He fucked me from behind. He tugged my arms behind my back and pulled me against his groin. The technique wasn’t lousy. He just didn’t last long.

He expressed disappointment at my lack of an orgasm. I bit back the inclination to apologize. I takes me more than three minutes of fucking to come.

He wanted me to masturbate myself. I used the handle of my hairbrush to accomplish this task. He had me sit over his chest as I did, a position of ascendancy that negated any submissive feeling that had been generated from being told to perform. It took ten minutes of penetration, the slide against the G-spot, and direct clitoral stimulation. The climax was small and inconsequential.

Declining another fuck, I made my excuses, dressed, and left after that.

The man sent an e-mail asking for a second meeting. I said no. He sent another. It went into the trash can.


1. New Ryder - April 20, 2011

Succinct, declarative, wonderful.
Thank you.

2. thepostmanalwaysrings - April 20, 2011

Leah, a great post but sorry that you had such a dreadful experience.
These do open my eyes to how some men can behave so badly.
Bettr luck next time!

3. Jack - April 20, 2011

As a guy who literally has never had casual sex (been with my lady for 12 years or so), this is refreshing to read. It’s easy to fantasize about wild, nerve-rattling, fantastic casual sex but never the other side of it.

I still want to bend over a random hot female every once in a while. Actually, all the time, who am I kidding

4. elsiewrites - April 21, 2011

Oh well, you win some, you lose some… I like that you write up the mediocre along with the earth shattering!

5. Marie - April 23, 2011

It’s funny – the repetition of mundane sex much like this has almost turned me off to casual encounters.

6. Innocent Loverboy - April 24, 2011

Thirty seconds of cunnilingus?! That hardly counts!

7. Anonymous - April 25, 2011

The question that’s been festering for some time (and not at all related to this post) is this:

what instrument do you play?

Leah - April 25, 2011

I play flute and piccolo. I took piano lessons as a kid, but was never any good.

8. writingwithellie - April 27, 2011

Oh heavens, what a mess!

Hope this weeks brings you much better experiences!


Leah - May 4, 2011

It has been a brief dry spell. This should end soon.

9. Faust's desire - May 1, 2011

Bad sex happens…. Normally, you would not ask for more. Since you know when it is not working. Perhaps we have all bad and good days…. But we should not perpetuate the bad ones….

Perhaps, it is better to think about making love in trains… Finding a story about loving all the way from Berlin to Beijing in the transib or from the west to the east cost….. (To refer to your Frank story…)

Leah - May 4, 2011

A train and a plane experience are on the itinerary someday.

10. deliciouslydeviant - May 4, 2011

Well, in any walk of life things don’t work out to plan or to expectations sometimes!

We seem to have discovered this blog quite late on it its life, but yo’re posting interesting stuff here.

Leah - May 4, 2011

Thanks and welcome.

11. lizdoherty - June 23, 2011

Been there, done that.

Leah - July 19, 2011

Sucks, doesn’t it?

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