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Rebound April 2, 2011

Posted by Leah in Craigslust.

I am by no means over the ex-boyfriend, but it’s time for me to move on. I am satisfied that the drought ended last night. He wasn’t the unicorn of myth, but the sex left me sated. I feel more human, more happy, more feminine, more a woman for having indulged in a one night stand. My muscles have the agreeable soreness of a recent fuck. It is almost better that the man is nearly anonymous to me. I close my eyes and picture his face easily now: the buzz cut, the set of his jaw, the big bones of his cheeks, those thin red lips. Soon this memory will recede. He is just one more man I have screwed. His cock was as thick as my wrist.

I posted the following casual encounters ad twice and received 79 replies before the inevitable flagging. One of the men recognized my voice from the blog and offered his good wishes.

Rebound – w4m

I am an American woman in London who is 25 years old. I got out of a long distance relationship recently. My pussy hasn’t had a cock in what, for me, is an unusually long time. I will be exceptionally tight for my next guy. The others will have fun, too. I am looking for casual sex and lots of it. As I am submissive in bed, I am in search of attractive, intelligent, highly sexual, dominant men.

To start, I wonder if there is a fantasy that has been bouncing around inside your cranium for years. It’s something you deeply desire, but you have never found the right partner or the right moment. Tell me about it. Be specific! I am chasing the odd and the perverse; kink is good.

In your reply, please include a clear pic of face and body. No photos of erections please! I have seen them and know how they look. If both you and the scenario appeal, I will be in touch. Ideally, we would meet up this weekend or during the week ahead. I prefer if you can host in Zone 1.

I am consistently astonished by how many men can’t or won’t follow simple instructions. As well, a dearth of imagination that harmonizes with my own kinks vexes and perplexes me. Still, a couple of candidates have emerged. I hope for amazing sex in the days ahead.


1. thepostmanalwaysrings - April 2, 2011

Leah, I have tried Craigslist myself. I only tried it after reading about it from Liz Doherty and yourself and have to admit that I have been sorely disappointed. Last week I tried and did get something that sounded like a genuine reply, only to find that it was someone who just wanted my email address to send me the next mail ‘hi, I would love to talk to you more, you sound lovely. Can we meet on xxx(insert any fuck text in here).com – my profile is Sarahfuckpussy69 or something as stupid.
It really angers me that these sites use Craigslist for their marketing. I had about 20 requests to join something called nenute.net and now 119 junk emails from a silly match.com website.
I would actually love to know how to report these.

Anyhow, that is my rant over…I hope you are experiencing some great sex right now.

Leah - April 3, 2011

Men and women seem to confront different problems with Craigslist. Whereas you have the spammers, we have the flaggers.

I think the Craigslist model is ideal for acquiring casual sex, and I have had decent luck with it in the past. Unfortunately, the execution leaves much to be desired these days.

LDAP - April 3, 2011

This is a simple supply-demand equation at work. Many men, not so many women. Perhaps there is a large group of women out there that desires easy sex via anonymous means, but they are not using craigslist. Perhaps you would have more luck using a service like Ashley Madison. While it costs money, it helps to filter out the noise, improving your odds (not that I know from personal experience).

Leah has success because she offers the rarer quantity – a sexually-forward female with intent. I wish you the best of luck in your online forays.

Leah - April 4, 2011

There is success, but the pool is limited. Out of 79 replies, exactly four enticed me to follow up. I met with three and fucked two. Tonight’s encounter has me chuckling. Expect a post in the next days.

2. Allie - April 3, 2011

Congrats on getting back into the sexual groove!

I’m a female student in Cambridge, MA who’s been reading your blog for several months now. I enjoy your writing very much, and it means a lot to me to see a woman who is academic and sexual, feminist and submissive, self-confident and kinkily promiscuous. It gives me hope to see that a girl can enjoy intimate, affectionate sex with good conversation and genuine friendship without seeking a relationship with that person (and that perhaps being able to do so does not make me cold and heartless!). It’s even better that, despite what Hollywood and society like to say, these relationships can be non-disastrous.

I wish I knew more people like you – the university here is ideologically liberal, but people are surprisingly conservative in their lifestyles. I love that you love sex, that you are unapologetically promiscuous, yet that does not limit who you are.

Best wishes in moving forward. I hope you’ll continue to share your stories with us.

Leah - April 3, 2011

Thanks for the comment, Allie. It’s good to be back.

I know first hand how conservative people in New England can be, and how they project this traditionalism as a mandate onto others. Hang in there. Keep an eye out for adventure. Though we are outnumbered, you and I, people like us are out there.

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